Friday, March 25, 2011

I'm dying to go to Prom with you!

It all started with an upcoming dance.....
which led to an idea......
which led to a crime.....
which led to a crime scene......
which led to the asking of a GIRL to Junior Prom!

by Eric (and his Dad).....I swear I had nothing to do with it.....

Eric made up a crime report and on the bottom it said, "I'm dying to go to prom with you."  Now, that wouldn't have been so bad, except that he had to go to the next level.....


He and a friend went over to the girl's house and drew a chalk body outline by her car to resemble a dead body.....yes, morbid, I know.  (Once again, I plead the 5th)......


and placed crime scene tape (yellow crepe paper with the words "crime scene" written on it) all over her car with the crime report attached......




Okay, I guess it was pretty funny, but I about "died" when I first heard the idea.....no pun intended!

So, Ashleigh (yes, she has a name) and a her friend came over and decorated Eric's room with tons of balloons to answer.  I think they were quite dizzy when they were finished.....







 And on the ceiling, in glow-in-the-dark stars, she spelled the word, "yes."  It was very cute (and much less morbid, if you ask me).....



Now before we get into the pictures of the "couple," let me tell you about the options Eric's group had for the big event. 

1.  Meet as a big group to go ice skating during the day (somewhere in Murray)
OR.....2.  Bowling during the day (somewhere else) 
OR....3. Some girl is paying for them to go in a limo, so Eric won't have to drive (yeah!)
OR.....4.  Picnic at Murray Park (instead of dinner at a nice restaurant....and let's not forget it was the end of February.....and it was freezing!)
AND.....5.  Bring prom clothes and change in restroom of the Capitol (where the dance was)
OR.....6.  Maybe go to Spaghetti Factory downtown for dinner instead
AND.....7.  Pick up friend's date somewhere in Sandy
AND.....8.  Take freeway to the capitol from girl's house in Sandy
AND....9.  Dance a few slow dances together and a lot of FAST dances with a group
THEN.....10.  Take friend's date home back in Sandy
AND.....11.  Drop off friend and Ashleigh
AND.....12.  Be home ASAP (my request)

These ideas were discussed in some detail.....but nothing was really decided until the day before the dance.  And here's what was decided.....

THE LIMO RIDE FELL THROUGH....SO ERIC HAD TO DRIVE (ugh!)

1.  Meet at the ice skating place at noon (some place in Murray)
2.  Be home around 2:30 to get ready for Prom
3. Pick up date at 4:45
4.  Come back to our house so I can take pictures
5.  Pick up Kevin (the friend he was doubling with)
6.  Pick up Kevin's date somewhere in Sandy
5.  Meet at the Spaghetti Factory downtown at 5:30 with group of friends
6.  Get to dance at around 7:30
7.  Enjoy yourselves
8.  Leave dance at 10:00
9.  Drop everyone off at their respective homes
10.  Don't stay and talk forever
11.  Be home ASAP

AND HERE'S HOW IT WENT DOWN.....

1. Estimate WHERE the ice skating place is in Murray....talk about possible routes and depend on Kevin for directions
2.  After picking up Ashleigh and Kevin, meet at ice skating place at noon
3.  Arrive at ice skating place
4.  Go in and discover it isn't public skating time
5.  Weigh options about what to do instead
6.  Decide to go bowling at Fat Cats
7.  Bowl one game
8.  Arive home at 3:30, already tired

THEN......

1.  Draw maps to various locations intended for the evening, such as Kevin's date's home (somewhere in Sandy), freeway entrance for downtown, freeway exit to Spaghetti Factory, and the capitol).  Then repeat for the way home.....
2.  Talk about various routes, but try not to be confusing. 
3.  Write directions down on small paper
4.  Pray that everyone survives the evening!

THEN.....

1.  Have Ashleigh call when she's ready
2.  She calls at 5:00 and Eric goes to pick her up
3.  Comes back to our house for pictures

Take pictures!










4.  Send them off on their merry way....and pray some more.
5.  Pick up Kevin
6.  Get lost on the way to Kevin's date's house and call to get directions (from date's parents)
7.  Finally arrive to pick up date
8.  Get on wrong freeway and take it completely around the valley (I-215)
9.  Arrive at Spaghetti Factory at roughly 6:30
10.  Eat
11.  Leave for the capitol and arrive at about 8:30
12.  Wait in line for pictures
13.  Dance a few dances
14.  Leave at roughly 10:00 to take everyone back home
15.  Eric calls at 10:45 and tells me he just dropped off Kevin's date and he's headed home.....(what a good son)
16.  Arrives home at 11:45
17.  Uses up a half a tank of gas!


Okay, seriously though, I know all of that sounded confusing and somewhat disjointed.  BUT, I know they had tons of fun.  The plans were not exactly the way I would have done them, but I'm not a boy.  And boys are different than girls, just so you know!  Eric was exhausted when he got home because he had driven so much during the evening.  He also was recovering from a terrible cold and wasn't completely up to par, but I know he enjoyed himself and was glad he went.

As for me, I wasn't as stressed as I thought I was going to be, which was good.  And Eric got TONS of driving experience all over the valley.....all in one night!  And he did okay.

Good job son!  I'm glad you had fun.  Now since you don't have a job, you owe us big time!  :) 


5 comments:

Unknown said...

Thanks for the post. It sounds like they had a lot of fun. The pictures are great.

Jana said...

I was exhausted just reading the post ... lol

Anonymous said...

Grandpa said, "It sounds like you had fun stormin' the castle--- when you finally found it."

It seems like such a short time ago all of our sons were doing this very same thing! Wow! How time flies... it was just the blink of an eye...

So glad everyone had a great time and were safe! So fun to read about!

Malissa said...

I remember having my parents drawing me maps. I am glad Eric had fun and got where he needed to go. He looks good in a tux.

S&F Seminario said...

I seriously don't know what I'm going to do when our kids get old enough to go to school dances! I might have to follow in a dark car with tinted windows. This was a great recap. Eric is a such a great catch. We think the world of him.